Instrumental Case: -(y)le / -(y)la ("with / by means of")
Turkish doesn’t need a separate preposition for “with” or “by means of” the way English does - it has a suffix that glues straight onto the noun. -(y)le and -(y)la cover both “accompanied by” (arkadaşımla — with my friend) and “using as a tool” (kalemle — with a pen), and unlike most of the case endings you’ve already learned, it started life as a separate word — which is why its own vowel-harmony behavior looks a little different once you dig into it.
What this suffix does
Attach -(y)le or -(y)la to a noun and you get “with [that noun]” — either as company or as the means by which something is done:
- Ali ile → Ali’yle — with Ali (company)
- araba ile → arabayla — by car / with a car (means)
- kalem ile → kalemle — with a pen (means)
The suffix is actually a shrunken, attached version of a separate word, ile, that still exists on its own and means exactly the same thing. Ali ile geldim and Ali’yle geldim both mean “I came with Ali” — the suffixed form is just the everyday, more common choice in speech and writing alike.
Forming it
Because it comes from ile — a separate word that only ever contained the vowel e — this suffix only has two harmony variants, front and back, the same two-way split you already know from other suffixes built on a low vowel like the dative -e/-a and the locative -de/-da. (It’s the suffixes built on a high vowel — the genitive -in/-ın/-un/-ün, the accusative -i/-ı/-u/-ü — that split four ways instead, because high vowels carry an extra rounding contrast that e and a don’t.)
| Last vowel of the noun | Suffix | Example |
|---|---|---|
| Front vowel (e, i, ö, ü) | -(y)le | kedi → kediyle |
| Back vowel (a, ı, o, u) | -(y)la | araba → arabayla |
A buffer -y- appears whenever the noun already ends in a vowel, for the same reason it appears before other vowel-initial endings — Turkish never lets two vowels sit side by side:
- araba (car) → arabayla — by car (vowel-final, buffer needed)
- kalem (pen) → kalemle — with a pen (consonant-final, no buffer)
- kapı (door) → kapıyla — with the door
- ütü (iron) → ütüyle — with an iron
Because harmony looks at the noun’s actual final vowel — suffixes and possessive endings included — adding a possessive ending first can change which variant you need: arkadaş (friend, back vowel) gives arkadaşla, but arkadaşım (“my friend,” which still ends in the same back vowel a) gives arkadaşımla either way, while a front-vowel possessed noun like evim (“my house”) gives evimle.
Exceptions worth knowing
Personal pronouns don’t attach the suffix to their bare form — they attach it to their genitive form instead, which is why “with me” is benimle, never the benle you’d get by analogy with regular nouns:
| Pronoun | With-form |
|---|---|
| ben (I) | benimle |
| sen (you) | seninle |
| o (he/she/it) | onunla |
| biz (we) | bizimle |
| siz (you, pl./formal) | sizinle |
| onlar (they) | onlarla |
Notice that onlarla breaks the pattern of the other five: onlar already ends in the consonant r, so the suffix attaches directly to the plain pronoun with no genitive step and no buffer needed, giving the regular-looking onlarla rather than a genitive-based form.
The full, unattached word ile never changes for vowel harmony at all, because it’s a separate word rather than a suffix — Ali ile, araba ile, and kalem ile all use the identical word ile regardless of what precedes it. Harmony only kicks in once ile shrinks down into the attached -(y)le/-(y)la suffix.
The same ending also expresses “and” when it links two nouns, a use worth knowing apart from its “with/by means of” sense: annem ve babam (“my mother and my father”) can equally be said annemle babam — literally “my mother with my father,” but understood as “my mother and my father.”
Examples
- Ben her sabah otobüsle işe gidiyorum. — I go to work by bus every morning.
- Sen bu mektubu kimle yazdın? — Who did you write this letter with?
- O, kız kardeşiyle tatile çıktı. — He/she went on vacation with his/her sister.
- Biz anahtarla kapıyı açtık. — We opened the door with the key.
- Siz yarın benimle buluşacak mısınız? — Will you meet up with me tomorrow?
- Onlar arabayla değil, trenle gittiler. — They went not by car, but by train.
- Bu çorbayı kaşıkla mı, çatalla mı yiyorsun? — Are you eating this soup with a spoon or with a fork?
Try it yourself
Babi, Speafy’s AI tutor, will have you swap between the “with a person” and “with a tool” senses of the same sentence until choosing -(y)le vs. -(y)la by harmony feels automatic, and Speafy’s FSRS-based flashcards make sure the irregular pronoun forms — especially benimle over the tempting benle — get reviewed often enough to stop you from ever reaching for the wrong one.
Frequently asked questions
How do I say "with" in Turkish, like "with my friend"?
Attach -(y)le or -(y)la to the noun, choosing the variant by vowel harmony: arkadaşım (my friend) ends in a back vowel, so it becomes arkadaşımla, "with my friend."
Why does the instrumental suffix only have two forms, -le and -la, instead of four?
Because -(y)le/-(y)la comes from ile, a word that only ever contained the vowel e, so it only splits into a front variant (-le) and a back variant (-la) - the same two-way pattern you already see on other suffixes built from a low vowel, like the dative -e/-a and the locative -de/-da, as opposed to four-way suffixes like the genitive -in/-ın/-un/-ün that are built from a high vowel.
What's the Turkish word for "with me," and why isn't it benle?
It's benimle, built on the genitive form of the pronoun (benim, "of me") plus -le, not on the bare pronoun ben - this genitive-based pattern holds for all the singular personal pronouns (benimle, seninle, onunla).